DP and I have a lovely relationship and he’s so so supportive of me. From the off we have had incredible chemistry, he never made me second guess anything and it was all just so easy. It still is that way and I feel really lucky to have someone so lucky.
I know that in relationships things calm down and settle, and I have no doubt that he loves me. We’ve been together 10 months now and I can’t help but see the texts at the very beginning and feel sad. He would text things like “you’re the most incredible person I’ve ever met😍😍” and “I miss you so much I’m literally itching to see you❤️”.
Now he still makes me feel so loved but there is a little difference eg he will just say “excited to see you later x” or “you alright xxx”. He will text me less frequently while he is working or doing his own thing. Which is fine of course!
I sound pathetic I know, as I know things aren’t always going to be fairytale! Deep down I know, I just stupidly worry a lot that it’s not always like that. I had to delete TikTok as well as I always see videos of couples seeming loved up and it turns out they were cheating or fallen out of love etc etc.
I’m fully aware these are my insecurities and deep down I know that as long as I feel loved, that’s all that matters. But how do I stop worrying?