I've been with my boyfriend over a year but we've become official the last 8 months. In his last relationship he was an alcoholic and he ended up messaging other women which played a part in their separation amongst other things they both did.
He had a huge clear out of women on his Facebook 4 months ago. He has few friends on their now and he told me he stopped speaking to alot of women out of respect for Me. He's always expressed regret that he behaved the way he did when he drank.
He is always complaining that he hates phones and Facebook etc.
The last 4 or 5 days I've noticed he's always online. When I stay over its standard for him to go make drinks and smoke fags in the night. He's currently going through a stage of taking his phone in the kitchen with him and going on Facebook.
When I was there 2 days ago he kept going on Facebook and sitting with it near the charger. He was saying he was checking his emails.
He sent me a screenshot earlier and there was a second messenger icon open. He went to the shop and told me he'd ring when he got out . After 25 minutes I rang him and it said his phone was unavailable after a few rings. He rang me straight back and said he wasn't on the phone. I said oh OK just you said you'd ring me back in 2 minutes so thought I'd ring and see. He said another unknown number called him at the same time and probably cut me off. He said I didn't sound happy and asked if I was alright.
Anyway I'm just getting the worst feelings but I can't figure it out. He takes longer to reply to my messages too when he's already online.
What do you think?