I am really struggling with my husband. He cannot do anything for himself he he cannot even make a phone call or or or an appointment for himself without getting completely stressed and giving me the phone. We are really struggling with money since having our baby. He keeps on about wanting to obtain his HGV driving license however only revises for his theory a couple of times before stopping again even though he knows how much we are struggling and are desperate for him to get a better job. He called me this morning in tears saying how he feels like he's failed me because he hasn't got his license yet and is on a crap wage. He has failed three times now but won't accept help with revision as I'm sure he's not revising properly and always says that he is under so much pressure and that is why he can't pass. Does he really want to do it? I am losing the will to live with it all really, I don't want to go back to work yet my baby is only four months old and I feel that going back now I will miss so much of his milestones and it breaks my heart. My husband has no qualifications therefore cannot really get a well-paid job unless it's lorry driving. I really feel let down and depressed tbh, this is not how I wanted my maternity leave to go to constantly sat here worrying about how we're going to make ends meet, any advice welcome!