I was going to say a few months but it didn't work for me, it's took five years. I'm not going to placate you , it hurts. It fucking hurts. Knowing you have been cheated on, knowing he has hurt you. I curled up in my ball and didn't leave for five years!! I took medication, I drank, I did anything just not to think. I hid away. I pretended it would all go away. If you are me at this time in your life please, please understand there is life after . I didn't recover overnight but I have recovered.
- It really isn't about you. If they cheat it is about them, something wrong something not ok but not you
- You need to find yourself again.
3, Easier said than done but please do this,
3, as the above, you were a gorgeous young woman before you met him, find that gorgeous strong woman.
4, I have done it. I'm 51 and it's never too late x