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Marriage trouble

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Charleno1 · 24/02/2022 21:34

I’m on here to rant and see what how might perceive this? Tonight me and hubby argued as I felt he overreacted with our son. he constantly comments on how he earns more and pays all the bills ( I work 4 days a week and have 2 kids) so my wages pay our bills too we have a joint account. He tells me off like a child etc telling me to switch the lights off as he is pays for it 🙄 he says things like MY child not our child when talking about raising him. He says I’m stupid and raises his voice. Also this past month my wild past has been brought up twice and I feel guilty for it all over again. I’ve been married for 11 years! And became a Christian 2 years later which completely changed me. I sometimes feel like I want leave him but then I think of our kids and how we can financially live. Apart from this which is probably seen as very small. he is a good man

OP posts:
leotardrock · 24/02/2022 21:54

It isn't very small & he isn't a good man!
Honestly he's abusive! He's abusing you & now he's starting on your son!
Start to 'get your ducks in a row' I would go and see a solicitor and start thinking about what leaving him would look & feel like!

Shoxfordian · 24/02/2022 21:55

Doesn’t sound like a good man or a good example for your son who may grow up to treat women with just as much contempt

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