Unplanned relationship and pregnancy

[Sophx22]

Hi lovely ladies..
Im 36 had bit of fun with a friend and ended up been pregnant currently 25 weeks we still see each other regularly and have a sexual relationship still between us the thing is i dont no where its going with us everytime i see him hes had a drink or were going to the pub for food and a drink we have never had sex with him sober... I act like the girlfriend in means of texting helping him doing things at the drop of a hat for him but dont no am i stupid and been used

That gives you just under four months to sort things out a bit.

You need to see if he’s capable of laying off the booze before the baby comes don’t you?

Can you manage without his financial and practical support if needs be? You can be strong if you make up your mind to be for the baby.

Are you still drinking too?

Do you want to be with him properly? Do you have a plan for living arrangements and financials when the baby arrives?

He's using you and you're falling for it. Stop being a doormat, get rid of this loser, and focus on being a single mother, because that's the way it's going to be.