@theyhavenothingbuttheaudacity
It's amazing how your mood can just drop when people treat you shitty like this
I obviously have my life and it doesn't affect that but someone who says they like you and are serious about meeting then just bugger off into thin air
I seriously don't like to be let down and have hopes dashed so maybe dating isn't for me as it seems I only get these type
You will encounter that type- but you don’t let it upset you, and only entertain men who ask to meet up within the first bout of messaging.
If they don’t- they want penpals
This man has also done nothing except text you, much less make it clear that they ‘like you’. When men like women- they go out on dates with them. He has ‘got your hopes up’ from toilet seat for all you know.
Online dating can be fantastic- but you need to disengage and be very ruthless. No one should be getting your hopes up as you need to be a cynic.
I only matched met men who were ‘my type’ and have prescribed interests that were important to me. I blocked men who didn’t ask me out within a couple of days of matching. I didn’t give out my number to men unless it was for date logistics- to stop their lazy wooing.
My friends said my standards were too high and I’d never meet anyone- but I have, and it’s perfect, because I never accepted bare minimum.
Change your mindset, expect frogs and weed them out- throw them back into the pond quickly if they are not keen to meet you ASAP.