Hi all, so here’s what’s happening.
Me and my so called partner has a newborn baby, matter of 2 weeks ago. 1 week ago she got all strange and said we are no longer the same and didn’t know what she wanted any more.
We have been together for 3 years and have recently moved in properly together only a week or 2 prior to having the baby before that I would stay at hers for about 3 nights a week for the last year or so due to having another child and the lack of space.
For the first few days after birth things were fine then all of a sudden out of no where she has said that things don’t feel the same, she is unhappy with our relationship and didn’t want me there any more and is unsure for us to continue.
For the last 15 years she has never lived with anyone other than her son who is 14 me moving in fully may be causing some of this and lack of space yet I feel she would never fully admit it to the extend it has.
For the last week I have now lived elsewhere, I have seen the baby in her home a few times but things are still the same she is distant in replies, not her normal self and nothing has changed at all.
We have talked and each time I get to what is happening. she says she doesn’t know what she want, don’t push me to make a decision and doesn’t know why there is a rush to make a decision. She also says there are other important things to think before us as our baby isn’t feeding well and has had to go to hospital once or twice but I feel a decision like this is just about as important because it affects baby too.
What do I do?
How long do I wait till the decision is out of her hands and I take control to end it?
Also, how do I act while she is making her so called decision?
I want to give her space but it’s very hard too as I want to see my child as much as I can and this is really clouding what should have been an amazing time of my life.
Advice would be appreciated! Thanks!