Hi, so after opinions. I've been with my husband for 17 years..with been an awful lot in this time but are still together, we had a heart to heart at the start of the year were we both opened up about stuff, fo me a lot of thr arguments that had developed between us was due to past hurts that I hadn't moved past, however I really felt he heard me on this occasion and that this was truly a fresh start..we had talked about the big stuff but also the little things that i tended to hold on to over time that then turned into a massive row. All was going really well until this weekend again he has told me he is going ro his parents home for a visit, invites our kids...I mean asks them "do u fancy going to nans" and then as they are getting ready..putting coats on, he then says to me did you want to come.
Am I being really petty? This was one of my gripes was that I don't feel included, that he literally treats me as an add on..a last minute thought and it really upsets me, he apologies and says he didn't think..but a few weeks later he does a similar thing again and we are back to arguing.
For me it's not the actual visit it really is the feeling I get of not being part of our family.
Am I over reacting?
Thanks