I posted a while back, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years. I have BPD which can be quite difficult for him. I'd say I have a high sex drive because I feel comfortable in this relationship.
At the start of the relationship and prior to COVID we were long distance, but seen each other every weekend. He use to not be able to keep his hands off me and we would have sex, morning night etc and when we weren't together he'd be sexting or watching P. He was more keen. Lately for a year now I feel that I'm always iniating sex, we do see each other more these days. Sometimes I'm there for weeks or a week compared to just weekend other times it's still weekends but regardless if I don't ask, it doesn't happen. We have now not had for 2 weeks. It makes me wonder what is normal in a relationship, no kids. He's 40. I'm late 20s. I've stopped asking in hopes but lately nothing!
I did actually ask him if there was anything wrong? To be told there was nothing, I know people would maybe think he's cheating but I'm with him constant when I am there, when he isn't working. Mentally he is fine, work seems fine! He is tired a lot but even at Christmas/ time off! I did dress up few weeks back and he wasn't for! I know maybe there is no reason but what would you do ? - everything else is good?