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There she is

70 replies

fenellastripe · 21/02/2022 10:04

'There she is!' (smiling broadly) said by a man to a woman he knows as she's turning up. What would you make of it?

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QuirkyTurtle · 21/02/2022 10:46

My stepson says this when I walk into a room, and it makes me melt. I think it's a normal British thing :)

picklemewalnuts · 21/02/2022 10:49

It means you matter.

ChocolateMassacre · 21/02/2022 10:49

He's pleased/relieved that she's arrived.

fenellastripe · 21/02/2022 10:52

@QuirkyTurtle

My stepson says this when I walk into a room, and it makes me melt. I think it's a normal British thing :)
Yes, I heard someone say it as I walked past but not until he said my name did I turn around and realise he was talking to me. It made me feel like he was the only person in the room for a split second. He's very 'British' but not posh British.
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AgathaX · 21/02/2022 10:53

I wouldn't make anything of it, it's just a greeting.
What do you make of it?

BananaBlue · 21/02/2022 10:59

Purely depends on setting and tone.

Sounds like a ‘pleased to see you’, maybe because someone in the group had said ‘is x coming’ or the person themselves said they were waiting for x, ‘oh here she is’.

In short, sounds like your presence was announced in a friendly welcoming excited manner Smile

zxcvzxcvz · 21/02/2022 11:00

I would think he was pleased to see her.

bluebell34567 · 21/02/2022 11:03

i would think he was hoping to see her and was pleased when he saw her.

MimiDaisy11 · 21/02/2022 11:12

Pleased to see her. Possibly used a bit more when someone has waited a bit but not always. Nothing in depth. Could be used by family, friends, lovers etc

Mollysocks · 21/02/2022 11:15

@QuirkyTurtle

My stepson says this when I walk into a room, and it makes me melt. I think it's a normal British thing :)
I like it too and agree it is Smile
Wednesdayat · 21/02/2022 11:15

It is a very loving phrase. I say it about/to my dog when I return home. 'There she is!' And then we have big manic cuddles.

Mundra · 21/02/2022 11:18

It's not a 'posh' British thing, it's just an ordinary thing to say. Please don't worry - it usually indicates the speaker is pleased you've arrived.

haikyew · 21/02/2022 11:21

He sounds fond of her
Without knowing the context
It's hard to say more

ExactlyThis · 21/02/2022 11:24

Normal greeting. I have said it to my children on more than one occasion. It means you’re happy to see them.

T00Ts · 21/02/2022 11:37

I think it means the person saying it was pleased to see the person who had arrived and had potentially been anticipating their arrival. Whether that’s a romantic thing, I cannot attest.

WonderfulYou · 21/02/2022 11:45

It’s a nice thing!

I say it all the time (though I didn’t realise until just now) whenever I’m excited to see someone - I’m British I don’t know how else to express my excitement 😂

CaMePlaitPas · 21/02/2022 11:51

He was looking for you and then he found you. It's not that deep.

daisyjgrey · 21/02/2022 15:39

My fiancé says it to me when we've been working away and finally see each other, it's nice Smile

Cas112 · 21/02/2022 16:06

I would think nothing haha

jpbee · 21/02/2022 16:14

In some contexts it can be quite flirtatious.

In others it can be a bit mocking, like coming downstairs hungover after making a fool of yourself the night before and someone saying "There she is"..

NotaCoolMum · 21/02/2022 18:31

I would say that @fenellastripe is FAR too overanalysing.

scoobydoo1971 · 21/02/2022 18:45

A man frazzled by his nerves. Thinking out loud as a way to deal with his anxiety. I have been greeted with less fond salutations and would receive such words gracefully.

PeakyBlender · 21/02/2022 21:56

I say that all the time. It's just a saying when someone arrives.

Myadhdusername · 21/02/2022 22:00

It's endearment surely?

DetailMouse · 21/02/2022 22:04

Is it a regional thing? My Yorkshire grandad would have said it fondly, but I haven't heard it in years. Or maybe no one's been pleased to see me in years!