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How to have a relationship when there's no trust?

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Alwaysforgiving · 21/02/2022 08:04

My DH is a liar. He lied about paying off his overdraft and a loan (which he never told me about in the first place). It's not about the money or amounts but rather about the lying to my face. There have been other actions in the past that have made me distrust him, but moved on, but now we're here and I don't believe most of what he says. He says he's committed to regain my trust, but I don't even know how he can do that? We've had abad weekend after I came back from a business trip because I'm snappy and I'm easily irritated by him..

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girlmom21 · 21/02/2022 16:58

@Alwaysforgiving

Yeah, I'm the main breadwinner. I could get a mortgage on my own. He's financially dependent to me, not the other way around.
Oh god don't get a joint account then. Or marry him.
girlmom21 · 21/02/2022 16:59

Oh I just re-read the OP and you're married already.

Alwaysforgiving · 21/02/2022 17:01

We have a joint account (and were married). In the 3 years of having a joint account he's never spent beyond what you'd normally expect. I do believe his overdraft issue will go away ( unless he gets one in his individual account which could happen, but I'm sure he's know that's the end).

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