Last week my Dear Friend of 20 years asked me a question and I'm not sure she liked my answer.
DF has been desperate for a 2nd child for at least a year. She has discussed this with her DP and at the moment it would seem he is not keen.
For context. Her DP has 2 children from a first marriage and 1 child with my DF. My DF has explained to him that while she loves her SCs she doesn't feel the same as if they were her own and really wants another.
DF told me she now feels at an impass because if her DP won't have another baby with her, she feels she may as well leave him because resentment will grow at the idea he is preventing her from having another mother-child relationship. She believes she might be better off meeting someone else and having a baby with them.
My opinion on this was (and this is the bit I dont think she liked) that she has to consider if it's worth splitting up her family and affecting her first child to MAYBE end up having a baby with someone else in future.
I also said she might not actually resent her DP for not agreeing to a baby but she's adamant she will.
She is 38 so she would have to meet someone new quickly?! I didn't say that to her face! 
Was I wrong to have pointed these things out? Should I have just nodded along and supported her ideas?
I dont want to be a bad friend...