Tonight when I dropped my 2 children off at their dads 1 cried as she didn’t want to go, I was comforting her whilst my older child (6) started shouting at his dad that he didn’t want to go to swimming lessons tonight.
Nothing was said at the time, I was busy calming youngest and their dad didn’t say anything to them.
Cue an hour after drop off when the ex text me saying both children are tired (yes because it’s the end of term!) and that my oldest shouldn’t speak the way he did.
Also stating the children told him they hadn’t had a bath/wash at mine last night.
He’s obviously been quizzing then and then contacting me.
I feel tJay as I was comforting one child he could have spoken to the other about how he was behaving. He was tired all it needed was a clam word and a discussion. Secondly the reason children weren’t bathed was because they do an activity that end slate and I am trying to get them into bed!
I don’t know what I’m asking really but it has narked me that he appears to be querying my parenting.
I feel children can go 1 night without a wash, that if he wasn’t happy about how his child was speak, to do something about it and stop messaging me!!!!
AIBU????
To not drip feed issues have started since he got a new girlfriend and stopped paying maintenance, which I am pursuing him for