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Am I being unreasonable!!

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Oakleaf40 · 18/02/2022 12:51

I am so over all of my EXH behaviour .. We separated 2 years ago, he is in a new relationship..He has moved away etc. Just constant drama all the time.

My problem is this, we have our son lives with us both and stayed every other weekend Friday to Weds.
I am pretty flexible when it comes to changing weekends etc.. He often just drops him off last minute with no notification.
I so sent the EX an email and told my son in advance to ask if it was ok to collect my son on the Sunday rather than the Friday and gave them the dates etc as I am moving house and will bring items with me etc.. All agreed.

Now his partner has sent me a message yesterday asking who do i think i am changing the dates around etc..!!! told her to check her facts before contacting me.
Then he send's me a huge email about parties not changing dates as it upsets people, why it shouldn't etc. and how its his weekend without my son and her weekend off..
Now as I have said I have never had any issues with dates being changed etc..
I am moving home so I needed to change the day because of this... I am really pissed off.. AM I WRONG TO BE??

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Cherrysoup · 18/02/2022 19:18

Send back an email reminding him he has changed dates on multiple occasions/dropped off your son unexpectedly, but you can’t change the weekend if he doesn’t agree to it. Just because you’re moving? Plenty of people move with their kids in tow.

SmellinOfTroy · 18/02/2022 19:21

Reply with "who this?"

Follow with a message to say discussions about your children will be held between the children's parents.

ACNHlife · 18/02/2022 19:23

I would politely remind him that if dates are not to be changed, that this goes both ways and you will not be changing your dates to accommodate him anymore either.

Oakleaf40 · 21/02/2022 13:42

@ACNHlife

I would politely remind him that if dates are not to be changed, that this goes both ways and you will not be changing your dates to accommodate him anymore either.
I did but fell on deaf ears.. needed my son with me to help..
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