My partner of 19 years is one I really cannot fathom out. He’s a good hard working loyal man but the bad out ways the good. He’s controlling and wants to know my kids personal life (their adults) money earnings etc he constantly creates rows and a bad atmosphere resulting in weeks of not speaking to me. I carry on as normal I don’t play the game I just think it’s childish. It’s like living with a duel personality. His playing games on his phone all night gets on my nerves as there’s no conversation he’s got nothing but work to talk about and just repeats what he said the night before. He must be dreadfully unhappy. We have a teenager and it’s him keeping us under the same roof. I cannot find a full time job in my area if I could I would end this relationship and sell up and move on.