And thinks it isnt a problem. His blase attitude stinks more than the dogshit.
He came in from being out with dd, i sat playing with her in front room while he proceeded to go about his business in the kitchen and then upstairs. He complained a couple of times that he thought he could smell sick(!) and that maybe dd had been sick on him.
40 mins or so later he came and sat next to me and dd on the sofa and the stench was both overpowering and unmistakable. I noticed he still had his shoes on. I dont like any of us to have shoes on the rug in the living room as this is where dd 9 months plays. He disregards this as ridiculous and does it anyway, which i accepted a long time ago.
Turns out there were substantial shit prints through the hall, dining room and into the kitchen where they faded out. But he’d also then walked on the rug in living room and all upstairs, so who knows where it is!
I understandably(?) was upset about this. I feel it was a perfectly normal reaction. For the record i didnt shout but i did probably come across stressy. It wasnt even directed at him, it was more focused on getting it cleaned up.
He thinks im being unreasonable for being upset about it and now all the focus is on how ‘childish’ i am that im bothered about dogshit in the house, as its ‘only dog shit’
All i wanted to do is get on and clean it and he wanted to challenge my reaction. He doesnt like any form of emotion in this situation.
To be honest im just sick of him policing my ‘reactions’ I think i can objectively view if im reasonable or not and i dont think i am.
But i do then become infuriated that the whole thing becomes about me and i did go in to get annoyed and frustrated. We’ve then had a huge argument.
Why couldnt he just say - oh bloody hell what have i done, sorry how do we clean it up.
Maybe i am being unreasonable.
Not sure why im posting here, just feeling a bit fed up and alone. Not because of the shit., because i feel like we’re on a completely different page at the mo.
And also if anyone has tips on cleaning up? Ive obviously cleaned and moped the woodwn floor, just dont like the thought of anything lingering on the carpets thats not visible