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Don’t know what to do!?

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Specialk2021 · 13/02/2022 18:36

I have been with my current partner for nearly 4 years, we are getting married this year but I’m so fed up!.. he works full time and I work a couple of hours a day..I just don’t know what to do anymore he dosent help with ANYTHING and you probably think I’m over exaggerating but I’m not.. we don’t have kids together but I have one from previous and he has 2 they all live with us full time and seeing there other parents on weekends.. I’m just at my wits end with everything at the moment.. he sits all day everyday he is off work on weekend and he does nothing! Even when he is finished he does nothing but sit..I’m constantly running around stressed out and still have to work.. the behaviour in the youngest ( his ) is getting bad like really bad.. she looses it over everything and anything and I’m struggling.. I just want someone to talk to who understands what it’s like.. not only family stuff but I have other stuff that’s stressing me out aswell.. I have friends who are married and they’re partner works full time and helps out daily and I don’t know if it’s me being selfish but I want that aswell I’d like to come home from work to the washing done and the dishes but no it’s never happend and I have had enough

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AttilaTheMeerkat · 13/02/2022 18:45

What is the point of this man being in your life at all?.

I would at the very least postpone the wedding and then reevaluate your relationship as a whole with a view to ending it. Its not working out and it seems as if this man has basically absolved all responsibility for the housework and his children to you because you're female and convenient. I would also think he treats your own child quite differently from his two.

Marriage won't change this situation any.

IsThePopeCatholic · 13/02/2022 18:48

Basically you’re a housekeeper and child minder. How very convenient for him. Please don’t marry t his man in these circumstances . There really is no point.

MostlyHappyMummy · 13/02/2022 18:53

Move out
Why would you put up with this?

Specialk2021 · 13/02/2022 19:00

I've just had enough of running around constantly and never having any time for myself.. even my step daughter has had enough and even she can see how stressed I am and that's coming from a 11 year old.. I just don't know what to do for the best anymore

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