Hello everyone, I was hoping for some advise/support/information.
Internet is full of 'we have sex five times a week after being married X years' which makes me really depressed.
Me and my partner are together for nearly six years and at at the beginning we had wonderful sex life.
Given that we are in our fourties now, we decided to have children quite early. After a miscarriage, we now have 3yo and 15months old children.
Before the miscarriage, my partner had an accident, he had broken leg and since that we really struggle with having sex. We do cuddles and kisses and we do love each other but for some reason we don't have much sex. Since getting pregnant with our second, we maybe had sex ten times.
I didn't feel much like having sex whilst breast feeding but now I do but I think my husband is not as interested in it anymore. We spoke about it and we both said we wanted to have sex but somehow it doesn't happen.
We have a quite stressful period in our lives with two kids, both of us work plus the pandemic.
I was wondering if anyone else has/had similar situation and how you overcame it if you did. I will be grateful for any advise or just hearing that it's not abnormal.
Thank you x