Had a very sporadic but intense FWB situation for over 2 years. Did not meet much and long gaps but the sparks flew when we did. He was younger and looking to settle down really. I was at different stage.
After a 6 month gap I contacted him and he told me he was seeing someone casually but would still like to meet. Fireworks in bed again and we started flirty texts and a bit of contact.
Another short gap of a month and then he initiated contact (unusually, it was usually me who initiated) asking to see me. We started planning a night of passion, talking about what we were going to get up to etc etc. I was really looking forward to it. He then cancelled a couple of days before and I felt completely deflated and disappointed. I did not even reply to his text and I blocked his number.
I reckon things are getting a bit more serious with the woman he is seeing and he was looking for a final fling but then could not go through with it or went off the idea.
I honestly honestly do not want a relationship with him and I am not super hurt because I knew what the deal was but I hate things that don't end on good terms. I want to send him a message wishing him all the best and telling him what a great time I had with him. I think I looked really petty by not even replying to his text and I hate that he might think I am ill mannered. He always treated me respectfully.
Am I being totally ridiculous? Am I kidding myself - I just want some continued contact don't I? Even if I did want to wish him well the moment has passed hasn't it? It was about 3 weeks ago now.
Stay blocked and stay silent?