This is more a rant than anything so please feel free to ignore, I just need to calm down and get it all out.
I’m 33 weeks pregnant today and my DH is constantly making promises to do things around the house (big things that I physically can’t do right now) and has been putting them off for weeks and weeks. We’ve had a huge row over it this evening and I’ve locked myself in the bathroom to clean it which is subsequently stopping me from dropping him! He’s had all weekend to do the things he’s said he’s going to do and has had to be told today at 5pm that he needs to get off his ass and do it! I’ve got boxes of baby things to build and put up that I can’t do until he sorts some of this shit out, for example heavy unwanted furniture that needs taking to the tip which is about 3 minutes down the road and a wardrobe that needs moving. I need his help painting and he went and asked his mum to come over and do it! I don’t fucking like the woman so I’ve now said I’ll just do it myself and told her I’ve sorted it. We only live in a small space and need to make as much room for this baby as possible but he’s so fucking slow and useless, I caught him folding dirty washing yesterday which he described as “tidying”. That caused a huge row, who the fuck folds dirty washing, just put it in the wash basket you useless fuck
Or better yet, put a wash on!
Does anyone else live with someone so irritatingly useless when it comes to things around the house? I’ve got such a bad back at the moment and a pre-existing issue with my legs that causes 24/7 pain and discomfort and going around the house to do things that he has said he will do but hasn’t is really taking it out of me and I can’t see the leg he’s trying to stand on with the arguments about it!