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How to be happy alone...

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leyahx · 06/02/2022 15:32

I've struggled so much with an emotionally abusive relationship and always gone back over the past 2.5 years. At the start of this year I blocked my ex off after calling him out on his bullshit (his last messages have usually been ur stuck with me for life, I will haunt ur soul if you ever leave).

After this I tried OLD weeks after, maybe I did this far too quickly? How can I be happy and be alone?

I'm 31 and feel like everyone's lives are moving forward and I'm still at a standstill. I was someone who was content with themselves and now I'm not. I've put on weight and always self doubting myself. I have a good career and my own money, yet something is still eating away at me inside.

Any suggestions?

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AttilaTheMeerkat · 06/02/2022 15:37

I would urge you to enrol yourself onto the Freedom Programme as it is for those who have been in abusive relationships. Your boundaries have been mashed by this individual and the last thing you need is a relationship at this time. Give yourself time and space to heal first. Love your own self for a change by practicing self care and healing from the hurt.

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