Want to rekindle the fun and enjoyment of each other in our relationship

[LowFat]

Okay, looking forward positively - I am the problem with us at the moment and I dont want to be anymore.

We are likely to be staying in tonight as DC's are only 4 and 1.

We have plenty of alcohol and nibbles and a couple of good films. But what can I do to really make a good night of it and show DH I am not a fuddy duddy, washed up, overweight mother of his children, I am also his wife and lover.....

Starting with, get home from work, have a shower, make dinner, put children to bed......

Coem down in some sexy undies and watch the film another night!!

Quilt on the floor, sexy undies, baby oil and offer him a massage. Music and low lights.

It's hard to be sexy when you have to go to work all day and still come home at the end of the day and make dinner & put kids to bed.

I would suggest, get him to make dinner & put kids to bed which will give you time to make yourself feel sexy (hot soapy bath, lots of skin-caressing moisturiser, luxurious makeup and chiffony underwear). Then jump on him!

He;s had the DC's all day so I will help out with them when I get home, but will take some time for myself to have a hot shower and a bit of pampering.

May hide undies under some old PJ's as a surprise because he wont be expecting it.

I like the idea of a quilt too.....home time hurry up!

LowFat hope you have a really good one. A spray of perfume twixt boobs is always a nice surprise.

Thanks - but am now getting nervous in case my advances are spurned. I guess the old PJ's are for security too!

If you come on to him less than wholeheartedly he will sense it. You ARE the sexiest bit of strumpet he's seen this year.

Low fat - how did it go?

I have been trying to spark up our sex life. I left him a note telling him a had a toy for us to play with that evening. He couldn't stop asking me about it. At one point he got nervous because I have never been forward in our sex life! I had been out with a friend and bought a video and a vibrator - never thought it was my sort of thing but it was a turn on and we didn't see much of the video before we were well away with each other.

It was fantastic!

Today I have just texted him to tell him what I want to do to him tonight so he can anticipate it all day . It will be just my luck that he texts back to say he is going out with his mates!!!!

Ahhh! the ever problematic choice, for a bloke, between the wife, who he probably loves and really fancies a good shag with, or the ridicule of choosing her over a night out with the lads because he may be seen as under the thumb. Men are such playground people arn't they.

Well after a huge serious chat about the state of our relationship - and where he admitted he was also a bit depressed, but could not name what it was we had a fairly good night. Although the conversation did take the sparkle off a bit

Suffice to say nothing as adventurous as Layla, but at least something happened. A bit of fun on the sofa and then up to bed for a little fun after midnight. Trouble is when it's been a while the fun can all be over so quickly. Must try harder to do things more often. I have such dreams of what I would like to, but always go shy when trying to tell him.

I did feel good though in nice underwear with perfume etc. And I think he appreciated the extra effort.

Yeeeha!!! I know what you mean about it being over too soon, DH has just had his steroids he should be 'able to' in about anothe 4 days and I will end up permenantly employed as a mattress for a week until the steroids wear off, ans then we wait until he can have his next steroid. But boy is that week fun.