Morning all, looking for some advice please. My husband has struck up a friendship with a woman in work, they were both managers in different parts of the country,wouldn't have had much contact with each other throughout the years. She recently got promoted, and they worked together on a project. Since then, he talks about her a lot, and just before Christmas they had a conference in Dublin. Despite all their colleagues being in the head office that day, they went for lunch together alone, but my husband lied to me and said he went with a male colleague. I know he lied because he left his work phone unlocked on the counter when he got home and I checked it quickly, a message from her asking to meet for lunch. Why the need to lie to me? My gut is screaming at me that they are getting close, so I checked his work phone this morning and they talk almost everyday, at least once a day. They are literally in completely different sections of the business now, and wouldn't have reason to talk to each other all the time. The calls are usually about 20 minutes long. Am I being unreasonable or what??