Hello,
So most recently I went back online to seek marriage. Firstly, it was just a swiping thing, but I then got chatting to someone. Initially for the first couple of days there was a good connection, lots of good conversation and he mentioned he was serious about marriage and settling down as well. He disappeared for about 2 days and then apologised and said that he had long days and had been busy (during this time I had seen him online multiple times throughout the 2 days). I continues to be patient and thought ok, maybe he was busy and did not let the fact he had been online affect my judgement, as with these apps it's like a candy shop. So we began to make plans and we spoke for the whole day about similarities and whether he was serious about settling down, showed each other pictures and compliments were thrown around. After making plans and saying goodbye that night, we spoke till around half 1 in the morning I logged off. The next morning he messaged asking how I was, after I replied he disappeared again for a day first, then 2. But this time he took off his online statuses so I couldn't see whether he was coming back online (I never mentioned this to him). I never really felt like talking to other people on there although I had lots of matches and a premium account. Due to this reason I messaged him, I said he was someone I connected with and I would like to speak again. I also mentioned I will be going off the app. I left my number and went off the application by logging out. A couple of days had passed, when I logged in again, his profile had gone, I'm not sure whether he blocked me or whatever - but I now feel so stupid leaving my number there. Did I embarrass myself by doing that or was it right so I could see he wasn't actually serious but just sweet talking??