I need advice. I’m not sure if I’m overthinking things?
I’m in the process of buying a house with my bf but sometimes I do wonder if he actually cares for me? I will often say that I care the most and he agrees with this. I will ask him if he cares for me and he’ll say yes but in a flippant way.
For example…I will ask him how he is and he’ll reply but often won’t ask me. I had a smear test lately and he’s not even asked me if I’ve had my results yet. I have blood tests tomorrow and he’s not even asked me what for. I had to go into school a couple of weeks back for a meeting and he never even wished me luck, told me he didn’t want to bother me on the morning of the meeting. If I talk to him about something regarding me he will answer then turn it back onto him.
My parents and closest friend say that he adores me, but I’m having doubts.
He is very affectionate and showers me with this, but I can’t help thinking that if I became really Ill or something he wouldn’t care?