37 weeks pregnant, found my partner using ONLYFANS?

[leilall]

Hi,

I would really like someone else's perspective.

I'm 37 weeks pregnant and last night I found out my partner had made a onlyfans account. I knew he watched porn. Especially if I was working on a night shift and wasn't home. Which I think maybe bothered me, but I allowed it and didn't make a fuss.

However I feel onlyfans is different as you can actually communicate with these women. He made the account at the start of January, he has not paid for anything, just subscribed (looked on the account) myself. Since I have been pregnant we have had sex once. The first 6 months of my pregnancy, I did reject his advances as I was suffering from HG. However the third trimester I felt a lot better and now he isn't into it as he feels weird, knowing there's a baby inside of me.

He left for work this morning and I told him to pack his things and get out, when he gets home. Am I overreacting? How should I deal with this?
I did scream at him last night I didn't want him at the birth of our baby. Which I think I was overreacting but his now made me feel so worthless.

Doesn't sound like onlyfans is the only problem here OP.
I think you need to set some boundaries about what you want from the relationship and what you are willing to offer.

Having said that your focus right now should be delivering your baby and the first few months afterwards. They are hard work. Get some support from family or friends, you might not be able to rely on your partner.
Give yourself some quiet time to think about these things.

You are not over reacting. I'm 24 weeks and have suffered with hg from week 5 and got spd. I feel ugly and fat as it is and found my partner had been watching porn which made me feel like absolute shit! I then just kept having sex with him so he wouldn't do it. I was too embarrassed to confront him about it. But only fans is way to far!! You have to pay to subscribe to accounts on there so he must of spent money. Just focus on you and the baby and try not worry about him for now.

I'd see Only fans as a step too far.

He needs to go