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Dumped him, now he's making up his own version of events

27 replies

iloverock · 27/01/2022 12:49

Have been having doubts about a 3 year relationship. I posted on here about it and it helped.
It all came to a head last week, it's ended.
He is now trying to rewrite history and saying I mentally abused him - because I was withdrawn and quiet for the period before I ended things.

He is telling me my best friend is having an affair and everyone knows. She's not but it's none of his business anyway.

He is now implying to me that I've been cheating on him. I wasn't. He's posting stupid things on fb to cause drama and suggestions and he has told me he won't stop until he has the truth.

It's incredibly frustrating and heartbreaking.

I've blocked him on fb and deleted his no from my phone.

Why do they do this. Why can't he just have some dignity.

I want to tell him and make him see sense and tell him to stop embarrassing himself like this.
Many friends have told me to block and ignore. Don't engage.

OP posts:
Jellykat · 30/01/2022 18:58

I went through the same 3 years ago, my ex was 57..
Leave him to it, its pathetic.
If he wants to play the victim and save face by making shit up, so be it..
Anyone that believes him doesnt know you, plus if they're too dense to realize they'res 2 sides to every story, shame on them!

Jellykat · 30/01/2022 18:59

Do'h, there's not they'res ..

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