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Date advice

3 replies

ShyAmy333 · 27/01/2022 08:17

Hi im a trans lady at present I'm spending probably 50 to 60 % of my time as Amy, although I expect at some point this year I may well go full time. Friends, family and work colleagues know about Amy and have on the whole been very supportive and understanding. They've met me as her.
One of my work colleagues has told me he finds Amy attractive and has asked me out on a date, just drinks and maybe a meal.
I'm very flattered he's handsome and really sweet, I've always had a bit of a crush on him. My dilemma is I have no idea what to expect. Holding hands would be nice and I wouldn't object if he kissed me.
I've not had any physical experience with men yet, I don't know what's expected from a woman these days?

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CloseYourEyesAndSee · 27/01/2022 08:19

I don't think mumsnet is the place to advise you on how to act like a woman on dates and in bed
Just saying try Reddit

corlan · 27/01/2022 08:22

Surely you're in a rather privileged position to know 'what's expected from a woman.'
Perhaps you could enlighten us?

Hadenoughofthisbullshit · 27/01/2022 08:34

This man knows you and knows new to all this, be honest with him about your nerves. If he likes you and respect you, it’ll be fine.

My dating advice for anyone would be just be yourself.

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