I really need some advice please, Iv been with my partner for 23 years we have two children age 22 and 16, he’s 58 and I’m 41, the last few years Iv been very unhappy and my partner is not a good communicator at all, everytime I try to have a discussion about things he just stares at the tv. He’s never really been there emotionally for me and I feel like we have no connection whatsoever, I want different things I’m still young so I want to do things in life like enjoy the time I have left and he said he’s happy to watch tv for the rest of his life! I’m so frustrated I’m starting to resent him, everytime I ask him can you not compromise? He will say all the time “no that’s the way I am” “I’m me and your you” and point blank refuses to discuss anything. All I ask of him is to try talking a bit more and also show a bit more affection and be willing to enjoy whatever life is left as it’s just too short, a year ago I used to sit every night and practically beg for his attention as he would just sit on the laptop every night and just blank me, I’d often cry myself to sleep, I’m not a needy person but sometimes it feels like I’m in a one sided relationship at times, me always trying to sort things out and I feel mentally drained. And he makes a joke out of us breaking up by laughing and waving bye! Fed up!