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Husband rejection

11 replies

Lhmum3xx · 24/01/2022 09:35

I know I may be being dramatic and silly but I really think my husband has gone off me and I don’t understand why . He has more interest in his phone or work and I feel like I’m last priority. Even doing little things for me has stopped. He doesn’t want sex with me ever it’s like he’s completely put off and I don’t know what’s changed. When I have addressed this with him he says nothings wrong and he’s just tired or I am etc (excuses) . I just feel so unloved and unwanted by someone I love so much. It’s effecting my life so much and making me doubt myself . Sorry to rant I just needed to vent x

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HollowTalk · 24/01/2022 09:36

That sounds really horrible for you. Is there a chance he's interested in another woman?

LittleKitten1 · 24/01/2022 09:46

It sounds like he has someone else? What's he looking at on his phone?

Rollercoaster1920 · 24/01/2022 09:57

He might have got the ick. He might find you irritating.
You need to talk to him and listen to what he says.

Mumsnet will tell you that he has someone else but only you and your partner can work through whatever this is.

SunflowerTed · 24/01/2022 11:42

Sounds like he has met somebody and checked out. Sorry xxx

Stillfunny · 24/01/2022 11:49

My DH behaved like this too. I thought he was depressed or worried about work. Turned out that he was emotionally and physically distancing himself because he was having an emotional online affair. I hope this is not happening in your case. Maybe you need to address him directly and ask him if he has anything he should tell you about. At least then you can decide your next move. The worst part for me was him knowing how confused and upset I was and not caring.
He is obviously a STBXH.

Dillydollydingdong · 24/01/2022 11:51

Cherchez la femme.

Pky45 · 24/01/2022 15:33

He has checked out, there might be another person or not, or he just have had enough of you, only he can answer that

I’ve pretty much checked out as well, no other people, just sick of my wife and all her complaining

SomewhereOnlyIKnow · 24/01/2022 15:34

Porn.

Dizzapee · 24/01/2022 18:23

I've behaved like this towards my partner recently and have over the last few weeks realised I'm depressed. Sadly think the damage is done and he's had enough.

Betty65 · 24/01/2022 18:36

I too think he maybe distracted by another woman...
let’s cut to the chase ...do you have access to his phone? Can you see his messages...top tip btw.,, check in archives!
Alternatively if not abs he’s in WhatsApp check out if he’s active / online on that app when he’s on his phone.

TheBoreOfHabilon · 24/01/2022 19:00

Escorts.

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