Advice on trust

[georginaw94]

Hi I am struggling to trust my partner after several situations. I am going through depression at the moment, I feel like he is pulling away. It's making me worse what do I do!? I need advice it's driving me insane!

Trust your own judgment, if it doesn't feel right it's not. Several situations? sounds like you you are not facing up to what you already know.

I'm given him the benefit of the doubt situation. He didn't actually do anything I've seen only flirted! I mean I've heard he stayed with his ex over guilt. I've asked him the same question he says no but he is being so off with me he can hardly look at me I love with him I can't just up and leave my life is here! I have nobody!

Could your depression be down to how you feel about your relationship? Does your relationship make your depression worse? Does he support you and encourage you?

Is your depression diagnosed? Are you having treatment for it? If not, then I'd recommend that's the first thing you should do. It can take a few weeks if you're prescribed tablets, but they can help you feel more of yourself, to see the world more clearly, and help you to be stronger to deal with other issues (like your relationship).

Please get all the help for yourself that you can. For your own sake first of all. But also we all have a duty to those around us to take care of ourselves and to seek professional help when we need it.