How can I deal with my daughters Dad? Two years after separation and everything is still an absolute struggle.
Sometimes he can be fine, then for no reason he starts behaving hideously, calling me awful names and making accusations. I've backed off because I have no idea who he will be from one day to the next. I want to maintain some sort of relationship, and feel I have to for our daughter who we have shared care for. For me if we don't talk and communicate, I worry things will fall through the gaps with regards for our daughter.
My daughter who is 4 even picks up on his moods, and has said several time about how she is sad when Daddy is grumpy. The other night she was in tears after he was shirty on a video call, and said it makes me sad when Daddy is angry.
I just don't know how to manage this situation. And I just feel exhausted by the bullshit. I am so worried I will be stuck with this rubbish forever.