So today I have been feeling unwell and have asked my partner to come home early (works for himself) and pick up DS from school. When everyone is home normal chaos begins and DP decides to take both DS outside for activity. I jokingly say good luck and will be on hand if needed. And he then says maybe he should take them back to his office and try and do some work. Every time I ask anything of him I get something similar - it’s ok at the time of asking but then I get a comment later on to let me know that he has been put out. In the end I stop asking for anything - but it’s no way to live - not a team. He does lots with the boys and round the house - but on his terms. I don’t know - now I have typed it - it doesn’t sound a lot but it happens all the time and makes me feel rubbish. Should you just let stuff like this go and ignore - I don’t trust my judgement any more - feeling very down and confused.