My boyfriend cheated on my in august when he was drunk, humiliated me as it was at a family party, first time I’d ever met these people! Anyway he said we’d just go for an hour, once there he proceeded to get pissed and the hour went out the window, I caught him flirting with a cousin by marriage and they ended up chatting upstairs, I over heard and seen a deeply upsetting scene, my boyfriend was asking her to kiss him, lay with him and even sit on him, she said no, I walked in on them, it was like he didn’t even know who I was, I ended up leaving alone. Turns out they kissed and fondled when I left, he said when he come round he realised what he was doing and thought I don’t want to do this, he walked home 6 hours and come and told me.
He’s stopped drinking spirits as he said it was because he’d had whisky, says it won’t happen again but I’m so so confused, to make matters worse he’s my neighbour, we’ve been together 20 months, I’ve ended it, got back with him, ended it again, now we’re on a break so my head is well and truly mashed… I don’t know what to do, he appears to be trying, we have such a emotional connection which I’ve never experienced with a man before, but I do worry he has such low boundaries when he’s been drinking, he said it’s ok now he’s not drinking whisky but I’ve seen him drunk, he does flirt when he’s drunk, and I worry if I try I’ll regret this further down the line and be made a mug out of. Most the men I’ve met have cheated on me or had low boundaries seems he’s just another one of them !!!