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One of my husbands/work colleague has just opened a business and is advertising on fb. My husband shared the post as did I. A friend contacted me yesterday to ask about his business. I then messaged my hubby’s friend to let him know my friends would be calling him. Hubby was furious!!!! Said I was having an affair with this man, he just wouldn’t let up. Told me how dare I message him I should have asked him first!! I mean this man has been to our house he’s not some random man ! He has been treating me poorly recently and said on his way home from work he was thinking he should be more careful how he treats me but after hearing this he didn’t care! What do you ladies make of this?

I think your husband is an absolute dick. He is also probably having an affair and is projecting onto you. Sorry.

@HummmmBug

I think your husband is an absolute dick. He is also probably having an affair and is projecting onto you. Sorry.

100% this

I think your husband is an absolute dick. He is also probably having an affair and is projecting onto you. Sorry.

Agreed 100%

Agree with @HummmmBug

@HummmmBug has nailed it straight away.

Your husband is twisting this back onto you because he is thinking about having an affair or is actually having one now.
Leave this utter wanker. I bet if you did some digging and thinking back over things you will realise red flags .

Is this the first time he has behaved so irrationally?! Has he been hiding what a weirdo he is all this time?

I mean I even started to question if I was being unreasonable! Which is ridiculous

Have you read any of the responses?

Hummbugg is right I suspect

So he's now saying that, because you were supportive of his friend's business endeavour, he's justified in continuing to treat you poorly? Is that right?

@HummmmBug

I think your husband is an absolute dick. He is also probably having an affair and is projecting onto you. Sorry.

sorry OP. I think this is it. Sounds like youre ready to leave him

Yep, he has come out with the you are having an affair one, because he is either having one himself, has had one or is on the verge of one.
Which is likely why when you had messaged this man, it was the first thing that jumped into his head.

Unless you happen to have a history of messaging other men and having affairs, his outburst is completely irrational.

Haha no I’ve never been unfaithful I was just trying to be supportive of his friends business. I am currently setting up a business so I know how important it is to help someone out if you can!