Talking to someone from OLD, he is trying to steer the conversation towards sex after..

[Shalamamamamam]

It's not normal is it?
Especially as you're yet to meet!
Doesn't feel comfortable.

"Normal" has nothing to do with it. It makes you uncomfortable and is raising red flags - don't ingore your instincts! Block this man and move on.

Well obviously what he wants from you is sex. If that's what you want from him no problem, if you want more than that then I'd steer well clear. He doesn't want to waste time and money getting to know you, he just wants sex with someone.

Would you normally talk to a stranger about sex? If not then it's not normal.

I would block anyone who tried this unless you are looking for hookups

There's as many 'normal's as there are people.

All you have to know is what's normal for you, so, if it doesn't look normal to you, then it's not normal for you.

Only spend your time on people who behave in ways that you feel are normal, and not those who make you ask the question 'Is there behaviour normal?' That way you'll only spend time with people you have a compatible relationship with, and you'll automatically filter out all abuse and being treated poorly.

Nobody else can tell you what your normal is. Your red flags won't be the same as anybody else's (although we all have some in common like violence, name calling, silent treatment etc)

Definitely NOT looking for a hook up!

@Shalamamamamam

Definitely NOT looking for a hook up!

So move on! You don't owe him chat, a meet, and certainly not a shag!

A lot of old are just looking for a quick bunk up. I'm always glad they show their hand early so I know to move on. Depending upon which site you use finding the genuine people isn't easy and also genuine and a gentlemen I find even harder to 'meet'

Just block and move on.

Block and move on - the way some men (usually the ones who can’t get a woman) think it’s ok to speak to women is vile.