Ok.. I really need some help here. Me and DD dad have split, he has asked to see her every other weekend.
Here's the thing.. he smokes weed, so do his teenage sons, he deals coke and sometimes takes it and also drinks quite a few at the weekend.
During the day none of the above exist, but at night when he's had a drink they do.
He loves our DD very much - but obviously is Involved in the above.
Now how honestly do I handle this? And what do I say? They adore each other so I don't want to stand in the way of their relationship- but obviously as her mum I have to protect her and it worries me so much that when she's in bed he will see no harm in doing any of this?