I've posted before about daughters father. This week has been awful. He has no respect for my boundaries.
When I tell him to not come round to see her he just shows up.
When I said she can spend a couple of hours at his house but I need her back by a certain time last night he said no I'll keep her for the night and get his mum to drop her off before nursery. She didn't arrive until 15 minutes before we were due to leave, her hair wasn't done and she hadn't had breakfast. She was crying her eyes out saying she didn't want to go to nursery.
I asked him what time she went to bed and he then tried to get his mum to pick her back up again and have her overnight again! I said no she is in nursery again tomorrow. I've said she cannot stay at his when she is In nursery the next day. It really fucks with my plans and our routine.
I had to then take her with me to my course today, she had to sit through a 2 hour lesson, and she was too tired for the afternoon slot.
Why can't he just fucking listen and respect my wishes? He's so erratic with no regard for anyone else. I stopped the visits at my flat because he is really disrespectful to me, I literally can't win. I'm exhausted and drained I don't need this.