OH and I each get a monthly allowance for personal spends. I used mine to buy myself winter clothes and shoes. I looked for good deals and didn't spend unreasonable amounts on each item. Obviously it's not something that I should have to justify when my clothes are thin and I have shoes the wrong size. But he's gone off shopping because 'I like spending my money' and he wants to enjoy his as well. I know he'll come back with hundreds of pounds worth of tat. Spending hundreds on tat isn't on par with buying necessary clothes. But before he left he said he's tired of hearing it.