In October after months of planning I left my emotionally abusive partner and went into a refuge. Ex moved on in 1 week, he's a gambling addict, needs must etc
NYE I met a guy who said add me on FB... I did and we've exchanged a few messages. He asked for my watts-app and I've had a few messages going Bk and forth. Nothing suggestive, impersonal, offensive, just nice hello, good morning & have a good day voice messages.
I'm not going to lie, he's really fit, like I got turned on looking at him fit 💦😁
He hasn't made any suggestion that he might fancy me, he's just being gentlemanly & nice.
But my mind on the other hand is reconnecting with my body several times a day, is this normal?
Should I immediately friend zone and put it out there because I'm worried I might be getting carried away at the first man who's been this nice to me in ages or should I let this play out?
I haven't felt like this in bloody ages, I've been going out a lot with friends & I'm really loving my life right now despite living in a refuge.
See that's another thing, I can't even be honest with him if he ever asks can I?
Christ my life is doomed 🤣
Maybe I should just back off for a bit and do us both a favour 🤷♀️