Hi there :)
My husband has been asking for a divorce for a while now. I don't really want one but he turned violent last night and my eldest son heard him calling me names and told me he doesn't think "dad is very nice to me" so I need to go.
A few problems I'd really appreciate advice with.....
Low self esteem- I have zero confidence and self worth. He's been putting me down for years and I'm left begging a horrible man to love me. He laughs at me or falls asleep when I cry and he doesn't txt back.
Practically.....how do you split the kids between you so you can work and earn enough to buy your own house. I only work two days a week I should get a decent deposit from our house selling but they won't lend me much on that so I need to go back full time.
Coping..... I'm so stressed out I can't talk, I find myself staring at walls. I can barely eat. I constantly feel sick. Why has this happened? I'm so gutted I've lost my family life. Holidays and special occasions together how do people do this?
Any tips to navigate this difficult time would be much appreciated or just some words of support or even someone going through a similar thing to know I'm not alone xxxx