So, I guess I'm here because I can't/won't/don't talk to friends and family about my relationship and I'm really struggling and need some advice. I'll try to keep it as short as possible.
Myself and hubby have been together since 16. 15 years later, two pre teens and a home together. We always had trust. 100%. No matter what happened I always thought he would be faithful to me and I to him.
Recently he was going through a really rough patch for many reasons and he was drinking way too much. To the point my children and I weren't a priority. Anyway, I caught him on the phone to another woman - he said nothing happened she was just a friend to talk to etc etc. With more digging and investigating and him tripping up he admitted to kissing her - quite a few times and on more than one occasion. He met her in a bar and went back to hers and then the next time he called her to see what she was doing and she came and picked him up and he went back to "chill" and they kissed some more.
So firstly my issue is that MY husbands tongue was down another woman's throat. Then we have the issue of the lies and then I think to myself do I really believe that two grown adults kissed like teenagers but nothing else?!
He swears blind there's nothing else to tell me. He's deleted and blocked the number and is bending over backwards to get my trust back. But I find my self crying myself to sleep most nights because I never saw it coming. I don't know what to do.
I have her number but I feel calling her wouldn't get me any answers. I can't ask him any more as he isn't changing his story .. maybe we just can't move forward from this? I don't know ? Any advice .. similar situations .. anything is much appreciated.