I found out by accident on my husband’s mobile he has been friends with a single female for nearly the last two years they have been messaging each other regularly and both messages back and forth have love heart emoji eyes, hearts, roses etc. I was not aware of this friendship. I confronted him and he deleted the messages and said it is nothing but a friendship, he then lied and tried to make out these messages did not exist, even though I clearly saw them. We have been together for over 40 years. He was blaming me saying what do I expect when we are not as we use to be! He does talk to me like shit nowadays, when I think back. He says he has deleted her number, I don’t believe him. He in anger said, I am not happy you made me delete a friends number. He has met her I know that because she is the daughter of an elderly man he is friends with, who he visits on occasion. What am I to think? He says in relation to all the emotional emojis he used in his text, well she sent them to me and so I just sent them back to her, I was been kind. They text each other late night and early morning, the texts were friendly and adoration led, nothing sexual. I feel so very sad and upset.