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Sleeping with The ex (BD dilemma)

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K1995 · 01/01/2022 21:21

What would you do? I broke up with my youngest dad when he was a newborn( he’s now 2) (I have two boys with two different dads) the relationship ended horribly but of course we co parented. He told me he was talking to someone else so I moved on also. As time went on we co parented really well and I was miserable in my relationship, he could see I was unhappy and would make comments about the situation. Anyway I ended my relationship because I wasn’t happy, and as I recently lost my mum my youngest dad and his family invited me to spend Christmas with them so I wasn’t alone. It wasn’t intentional but we ended up sharing a bed due to other people staying over also. He was really respectful and made sure it was ok if we share the bed and if I was comfortable with the idea. He iniated hugging and one thing lead to another. Things weren’t awkward and it was all good straight after. But since it’s gone weird and it’s like nothings happened. It’s feels like it’s gotten complicated because I don’t know where it leaves us. We have seen each other since because of handing our son over for contact, but that’s about it! Do I tell him how I feel? I don’t know where I stand! I don’t want to seem too keen or needy. Just it’s horrible because I’ve always wanted to be a family. I don’t want to miss out on the opportunity to have that again, but then what if it was just a fluke?. I’m trying to not let it get to me but I’m finding it hard to stay quiet! I hate asking these sort of things, but I just don’t know how to handle the situation! Thanks

OP posts:
youvegottenminuteslynn · 01/01/2022 21:43

Do I tell him how I feel?

How do you feel?

This has more potential to get messy and cause tension than it does to turn into a traditional happy ending IMO.

GoodnightGrandma · 01/01/2022 21:44

Sounds like he’s used you and moved on.

RedCandyApple · 01/01/2022 21:44

Honestly reading this it doesn’t sound like he’s interested in starting things up again but I could be wrong

Vapeyvapevape · 01/01/2022 21:47

I think he used you too Op , sorry.

K1995 · 01/01/2022 21:58

It’s hard to see it from the other side but thanks all! I was strong before I be strong again to walk away from it being messy!

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YuleiamsaidI · 01/01/2022 22:01

I think he was being opportunistic sorry and he's happy to leave it there.

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