Does anyone else struggle hugely at this time? Fed the f up with DH who is a useless manchild. Thinks he helps out by watching his OWN DC on occasion while also being glued to his phone, but hasn’t lifted a finger all holidays. DC are under 6 and need constant attention and to play all the time. I would like to sit and play with them all day but reality is laundry, cooking, cleaning, house so there’s never time. It’s always worse over the holidays as really see DH for the useless dick he is although this year lot lot worse as have hit a point where I can’t even look at him without wanting to throw something squarely at his head. He is always right there as well like another shadow just lurking. Even his breathing makes me want to scream. Christmas is so f ing suffocating. This level of hatred isn’t normal I know but guess would like a handhold it’s not just me and this is a shitty time of year when your marriage already is crap. Find myself staring at the door debating walking out of it and never coming back