So I have been living in a shared house for a few months ago and ever since I moved it I started sleeping with my housemate.
It first happened after a night out the first time and we both agreed it was a mistake and it was better to not do it again. However we keep sleeping together for whatever reason. I know it's a dumb thing but sometimes we don't have condoms and he just pulls out which seemed to be working fine.
However my period was late for about a week which is very rare for me so I took a pregnancy test just to give myself some ease of mind and it came back positive. I haven't told him about it as I found out just today, I am so terrified of his reaction and what he'll say about it. I'm pretty sure he'll mention abortion but I don't know if I could do that but also keeping it would make everything a mess.
It's even more difficult as I'm not even from the UK, I came here on an internal transfer for a company I work for that has an office here. I'm only meant to be here for a year and then return to my home country. If I were to keep it I don't even know how custody would work (if he chose to be involved) or if I could even take the child out of the country? I also can't figure out how to even tell him? I definitely can't hide it from him as we live together and I'll have to make a decision about it all very soon