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Skyfall100 · 27/12/2021 20:02

Looking for some advice please. I have three children with my husband who we have been married for 15 years. For the last few years he barely touches me unless I’m the one who instigates sex. Most nights he will fall asleep without even saying night or giving me a kiss. When I ask him why he’s like this he says he’s tired and that some times I don’t either but I told him it’s only because I’m waiting to see if he’s going to say it first! I don’t want to live in such a loveless marriage but I’m not sure if I would ever meet someone else plus I wouldn’t want to see him with anyone else either. Talking doesn’t work as he just thinks I’m being silly. I have tried to tell him to leave before but he won’t as he works from home as says he needs to work so he can’t go. What should I do?

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CurlyhairedAssassin · 27/12/2021 20:20

Do you not even have a hug now and then? A rub on the arm or shoulder and a warm smile to say thankyou for something they've done, or to show empathy if thye're not feeling well. So not necessarily in bed.

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