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Friendzoned or not sure? Read the signs?

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Covidfallout2 · 26/12/2021 15:27

Long story but my Christmas away with family got cancelled due to covid. I ended up spending it with my ex. We dated for 6 months 2 years ago and ended in good terms. First year was sporadic contact but in the last year we have become close. Spend a lot of time together. We have gotten to know each other better.

He was alone so we decided to spend it together. Cooked food, watched films, drank wine etc. I didn’t expect to stay over but he insisted. When I arrived he kept saying he needed to get the spare room ready. Said it quiet a few times and it did take him till late evening to do this. I said I would sleep whenever.

So I think I have feelings but not sure. Our dynamic is flirty but friends. Also I like his friendship so not too sure what to do? However a few things have happened over the last week, which could be friends.

I meet his daughter. He purposely brought her round so I could meet her. He was always so protective over people meeting her.

I meet his sister and family yesterday. It was on video call, but he always moves rooms when she calls.

He gave me his logins for his streaming services. I had them when dating, but as soon as we split up removed. He always joked he would only give his logins to partners.

I have been invited to his best friends for New Years. I never met his friends before. Normally he keeps us separate.

I posted on SM having dinner with a very great friend and pictures of us. We never post about each other as no need.

He went through a horrible breakup last year and said he didn’t see the red flags, but his friends did. He joked at the time that he would get his friends to vet any potential girlfriend.

Now am I reading too much into this? Or just a friendship progressing?

Help me read the signs.

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