What do I do with this , do I need to do anything? Am I reading to much into it? So...I have been with my partner 5 years, engaged 2 , getting married next year. We live together with my 2 children that are not adult age , his adult child lives in his house with her bf. I will give the name ash, ash never comes to ours always invited , but always 'doing something' when we told ash the date of the wedding ash sent an essay once he'd left to say 'wasn't happy with the way in which 'ash' was told' I just told my children we'd booked a date , no bother .. he went and told ash keep the date free , but ash kicked off said never sees him , has no relationship with him ... the same happened when we got engaged.. anyway I've tried and tried to make an effort , but get nothing back in return at all. So if I'm honest I don't bother anymore. Ash was Invited round for Xmas day , but went else where , said was coming this evening and didn't bother coming ... when he does round I tend not to go as I feel uncomfortable and it gives 'them time'. What do I do ? I'm marrying him we are very happy but I feel she dislikes me and I don't know why. I said to my partner last week I don't think ash will come , he said well that's up to ash the invite is there.. I feel sad about this but also pissed off, if someone says they are coming surely let us know your are not. I'm almost think what is ash going to be like at the wedding , I don't want to be made to feel like shit on our day ... what do I do ? Or do nothing ?